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How Nice Are You? Stop the Negative Self Talk

27 Nov, 2017 in Sharon's Blog / Uncategorized tagged how to be confident / how to be nice to myself / life coach / life map / negative self-talk / self care / self love / sharon stokes / Toronto Life Coach by Sharon Stokes

Are you nice to yourself?

How nice are you to yourself? Do you speak to yourself like you would your best friend? I don’t know about you but I’m definitely harder on myself than I would be to anyone else. Becoming an entrepreneur brought that out even more! All of a sudden I’m literally face to face with myself in everything I do, everything I create and every decision I make. I have no one else to blame for the mistakes I make or the inevitable ‘”failures” I feel I endure. I’ve had to work really hard at being kind to myself because I’ve realized the harder I am on myself the more I’m self sabotaging and playing small.

This weeks video is to help bring awareness to the way you might be treating yourself without even realizing it!

How to Truly Love Yourself: The #1 Tool to get you there 1

30 Jan, 2017 in Sharon's Blog tagged adventure / Brittany Brodie / coaching tool / free coaching tool / how to be confident / let go of the past / life coach / life fulfillment / life map / live in the present / love yourself / personal development / road trip / self love / sharon stokes / Toronto Life Coach by Sharon Stokes

How to Truly Love Yourself

It’s been such a rewarding experience as a Coach to see how the Life Map has helped shift the perspective of others. Helping people own their story and release any shame around who they are has been a huge part of the Life Map process.

I’m really excited to share singer-songwriter Brittany Brodie’s story about her journey towards building self-love with the Life Map tool.

She calls the experience “magical” and can’t wait to frame her map and put it in her office!

The “aha moments she had in creating her map has made her completely change how she views her life.

Part of the Life Map language such as “listening to your GPS” and “backseat drivers” has also become a huge part in her everyday vocabulary!

I hope you enjoy listening to her story as much as I enjoyed talking with her about it!

How the Life Map Showed Me Who I Want to be 2

16 Jan, 2017 in Sharon's Blog tagged adventure / coaching tool / how to be confident / let go of the past / life coach / life fulfillment / life map / live in the present / love yourself / personal development / road trip / self love / sharon stokes / Toronto Life Coach by Sharon Stokes

Life Map

I’ve had the privilege of taking quite a few people through the Life Map process, and I have to say I LOVE going on this journey with them!

Everyone has such a unique story. It’s so interesting to see how their past has really shaped who they are and where it’s led them.

I’ve discovered that overall this tool really helps people develop their core confidence. It uncovers your limiting beliefs so that you can conquer your fears and become your best self. It’s a way to make you fall in love with yourself and accept who you really are.

Today I really wanted to share my friend Jeremy’s experience with the Life Map. He opens up about how this process has really helped him and how it’s something he will always carry with him.